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Friday, silly traditions…

My Ma was rather superstitious and she   was very serious about her traditions and rituals.  When we were little she did her best to instill these quirks of hers in us.  This time of year there were a few things that had to be done–or not done–or else.  What the or else entailed I don’t know because we  were always sure to follow the rules about these things.

On New Year’s Eve all the Christmas decorations had to come down and be packed up and put away.  You should never have the old hanging around on New Year’s day.  This was sometimes kind of hectic and could be frustrating because what took days to put up had to be gone in one day.  Somehow it was always done though.

Also, on New Year’s Eve you have to put a dime on the outside window sill.  On New Year’s morning if the dime is there for you to take back in the house it means you will bring money in all year.  But, woe, if the dime is not there to bring in you will lose money all year.

There were a couple of important things for New Year’s Day, too.  One is never-never eat chicken on that day but be sure to eat fish.  The reason  for this is chickens scratch backward and fish swim forward–easy to figure out right–you don’t want to go backward in the new year, only forward.

The other thing is to wear something new on the first of January.  You want new finery in the new year, don’t you?  Who wants to wear old rags all year?

I laugh at these little rituals now–but not too loudly.  I do put away the Christmas stuff on 12/31.  After the big day all that stuff looks sort of tired and tacky. I don’t always wear something new on the first of January–I like my old rags so it’s ok if I have to wear them another year.  The dime thing I don’t do either–maybe because I don’t have outside window sills.  And I don’t usually have fish on New Year’s day but I never have chicken–haven’t a clue about why that one stuck.

I suppose these are silly little things but they are memories of Ma and they make me smile remembering her and her many quirky traditions.

2 thoughts on “Friday, silly traditions…

  1. We always put the tree away on January 2. Somehow the tree seemed to dress up the last holiday of the year, New Year’s Eve, and who has time on New Year’s Day to put away the tree. I’d hate to think what my mother would say if she found my tree up on January 3. Ha! I miss her very much. She passed away with cancer at age 46. Memories are part of us, aren’t they? I still miss her many years later. Blessings to you…

    1. It does seem the tree should be up for New Year’s Eve festivities. Memories of mothers are very special–it has been many years since my ma’s passing but I still think of her most days. Happy New Year…

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